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This morning we woke up to sleet, snow and freezing rain. You should have heard the local weather people, they were beyond panicked, it was weather every five minutes all through the early morning hours. I wasn’t worried about it, we had an early appointment with the radiologist oncologist, 8:00 a.m, I knew that driving slow and steady would get us there without trouble. We were only ten minutes late, 91 had traffic delays because there were a series of cars stuck on the side of the road, I suspect that these cars had been speeding when they shouldn’t have been, when you see snow or slush on the ground, slow and steady is the way to go.
My appointment went well, the radiology oncologist Dr. Hayder is kind, professional and patient. She fielded all of our questions and took her time explaining what I might expect from her department.
I am waiting for my appointment with the surgeon on January 6th, he is going to be the decision maker as to how long my chemo and radiation treatments will last, if he feels he can operate, my treatments will last about 5 weeks if he can’t operate than my treatments will last much longer.
This is all still new and it is a great deal to process, I confess that sometimes my brain seems to wilt under the weight of my diagnosis, however I am committed to using my writing, my baking and every other tool in my arsenal of coping mechanisms to help myself through this challenging time.
Thank goodness for my family, friends and Jack, Lulu and Stanley. They are lending me the strength to see this through in so many different ways, I am blessed.
I wish I could just come over and give you a hug of encouragement, Laurie. Please know how much I am thinking and praying and loving you.
Oh Jules that means so much to me, I’ll take your virtual hugs, they feel very special because I know they come from a real and sincere place. 😀 Hugs to you!!!!!!
My best wishes that your treatments are tolerable. My BFF just had chemo and now is having radiation on a daily basis. Her diagnosis was a first-second stage breast cancer. She says other than losing her hair, she feels great. She even looks cute in her wig! Hang tough and let me know if you need me or just want a visit.
Thanks June for the most welcome words of encouragement, I’m glad your friend weathered her rounds of treatment well, I am crossing my fingers that I will be as lucky. 😀 I will definitely let you know and take you up on the offer!! Love you June xx
My beloved Aunt is starting chemo in January, too. It makes me so sad. I hope your diagnosis is a worst case scenario, and that things go better than anyone imagined. Blessings.
Unfortunately my diagnosis isn’t the worst case scenario, I hope your Aunt comes through her treatment with flying colors, I can feel your sadness through your words, my thoughts are with you because it is sometimes more difficult for the family members because they feel helpless looking on at their loved one’s pain. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement, they help a lot. 😀
My Aunt will not come through. There is no talk of a cure this time, only of delay. Breaks my heart.
I am so sorry for your pain and your beloved aunt’s pain. I wish there was something more than words that I could give you for your heartache. 😦
I have known and loved her for so many years. That’s the best balm. Appreciate what you have rather than rail at what you don’t. It’s an ache made all the worse by all the love shared, but that’s a privilege. I wouldn’t try to take it away.
Hi Laurie, thinking and praying for a positive outcome for you. Your family friend dogs cooking,and your fantastic writing will see you through this difficult time. I just wish i could make it all better.
Kate.
Thank you so much for your generous words, they mean a lot and they help strengthen my spirit and resolve. Kate I hope you have a very Happy and wonderful New Year!!
Thank you. Laurie a very happy New Year to you and your family.
Kate.
Salut Laurie:
Rob and I were making a French dish today and were thinking of you. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We can tell by your writing and photos that you have a wonderfully supportive family, we send to you our strength and hope.
Abrazos (hugs),
Tania
Dear Tania and Rob, thank you so very much for your thoughts and prayers, as you said, my family along with support from wonderful friends like you will make my journey much easier to bear. Thank you. 😀