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My rolling of the eyes doesn’t happen often, at least I am not aware of it. Methinks that eye rolling is primarily a defensive gesture and I must do it subconsciously because I have been called on it and I didn’t realize that it was happening. When I think of rolling my eyes, I feel that it is a response to negative emotions directed against the person. I know that there are better, more constructive ways to react to negativity yet the eye rolling seems to be a visceral response. Eye rolling in an argument doesn’t help so it is something that all parties can work on to defuse the the attacking nature of fights.