My husband thinks that I'm irrational about being on time, not that he thinks that being punctual is to be irrational. He thinks that the importance that I give it, only in regards to myself, is irrational. Being late makes me ill, physically and emotionally ill. He also thinks that I am irrational when it comes to pleasing my mother, I admit that at 44 I am still living for acceptance and validation from my mother, so he is right about that. Oh dear, I have issues to work out, clearly.